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Is Your Marriage Stronger Than An Affair?

By: Alex Archer


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To try to explain the emotions one feels when they have just learned their spouse is having an affair is most difficult, but one can acknowledge that a sense of betrayal, anger, and hurt are among the prevalent ones. Confusion can take hold as well, and when in the midst of the emotional turmoil of an affair, it is all too easy to act with haste. An affair need not mean the end of marriage. Everything about your life need not change in a moment's time. If time is taken to consider what is really happening, and what the affair is indicating needs to occur at this time.

Though some might be inclined to run directly to a divorce attorney, there are reasons to stay married, even after an affair. Being human, it is very probable that even we have lusted after someone who is not our spouse at one time or another. We may have fantasized about a tryst, wondering what being intimate with someone else might be like. Unintentionally, you have perhaps flirted with of the people you've fantasized about. While it's true that we are all human and make mistakes at times, it is from those very mistakes that we can learn the most.

One reason to remain together after an affair is that working through difficulties causes both individuals to grow, together and separately. The strengths that can be garnered from working past an affair together are innumerable. It's not the good times that make a relationship strong, it has to do more with the ability to handle issues, pitfalls, and even seeming disasters together that serves to cement and reinforce the relationship and build up the marriage. Why not an affair as well?

Provided the one who strayed is actually sorry for their actions, the marriage can be build up from here. It doesn't matter who cheated on whom. It matters that both parties care enough to work on getting past this issue, and that there is a desire to remain together, and a willingness on both of their parts to face the difficult moments that will come as they forge ahead together. The marriage can not only survive, but thrive as well.

Why stop your infidelity? Think about when you first started this affair. Did you feel guilt? Why did reasons you feel this guilt. Was it because you loved your spouse, you didnt want to hurt them, or you didnt want your marriage to end? You love them and you two built a marriage together.

Part of the appeal of an affair is that the other party is a mystery, and the situation is intriguing and exciting in a way that marriage just isn't anymore. Perhaps the risk of getting caught is exciting as well. The likelihood that this relationship will endure over time once the feelings of excitement and the newness pass isn't very promising. After those emotions that you revel in now are no longer there, in all probability, it will be your spouse that you will want to go home to. Before the opportunity passes, you need to make the decision to stop your infidelity.

Why stop your infidelity? You still love your spouse! They know more about you, both your good things and your bad and they are still with you. They love you. So stop bringing this ugly hurtful thing between you both.

When you married each other it was in love. That love has played a big part in holding the relationship together when the storms came. Now, you have another storm to face together. If you both have what it takes to work past the affair, you will come out the other side of it stronger and more deeply in love. Because of the reasons you married each other, these same reasons are the ones that will keep you married.

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