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how to get my ex back with a simple technique

By: Ricardo Daryans


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What if I told you there are magic words you can use to get your ex back? I know it may be hard to believe, but trust me, I will show you a simple technique to get your ex back in touch with you in no time. I want to share this with you because this is what my users ask of me every time. So, lets get started on "get back with my ex".

Ok, so the question is "how do I get my ex back, to return my phone call or text message?" This can be done, but be careful, this is just the begining of a plan, and not a complete strategy. This will get your ex to return a call, but not get her/him back to you (just yet). If you do this without a plan, you can damage your relationship instead of helping it. This is about building a great relationship with your ex once you get back.

Let's start whit What NOT to Say. These are the usual mistakes people make, so don't fall for them. Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works. and worse, Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you." Of course, this call is not going to be returned. And if it is, you will be in a disadvantage position. You don't want your ex to call you back because he pities you!

And the EMERGENCY-"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this." This is an awful way to try to get your ex attention. It may work the first time, if your ex thinks you are really in an emergency, but once the truth is discovered, you will be considered a liar and desperate. This is only going to get your ex farther from you.

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? There are much better ways to get your ex attention back. Since there are a number of methos and a sound plan you can use, let's start with some of the basic ones.

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity and Self Interest. And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work "magic" So, Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone: "Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person." Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. this is a call that is going to be returned.

Now, prepare mentally for what you are going to say. What did your ex did right for you? Maybe it was some advice or a positive criticism that helped you. Maybe it was when you needed to talk with someone and she/he was there for you. Work on this so you can tell your ex about it. Just remember that you will get a call back and maybe a date, but this is just the beginning of getting your ex back. You need a plan.

With this simple method, you will have your ex calling you, but is only a part of a larger strategy. If you really want to get your ex back, you have to have a plan. You now can have a call and maybe a date. Now you have to work to get your ex back.

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Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the Clean Slate Method and "breaking the pattern" you could. Quickly and easily. Get your ex back now.
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